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dark_kana ([personal profile] dark_kana) wrote in [community profile] 3_good_things_a_day2025-11-05 10:58 am

Wednesday 05/11/2025


1) A clean house

2) Hopefully going to finish a crochet project this evening :D

3) Lunch with hubby and our daughter :-)
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hannah ([personal profile] hannah) wrote2025-11-04 09:42 pm

Good time.

Genuine cheering and plate-banging outside my apartment right now is proper celebration on the mayoral race. I'm still a little disappointed I couldn't work the polls today, because it'd have been wonderful to be in the room, but this will do for now.

Other good things of the day really pale in comparison to someone who wants there to be poor people in New York City, because a healthy metropolis is one where people of all stripes thrive. Bring it.
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ᴍ ɪ ɴ ᴛ ([personal profile] mintesque) wrote in [community profile] animeicons2025-11-04 05:07 pm

80 icons – higurashi (eua)



Rest of the icons can be found HERE.

Warning for some spoilers of Eua as a character.
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dark_kana ([personal profile] dark_kana) wrote in [community profile] 3_good_things_a_day2025-11-04 09:48 am

Tuesday 04/11/2025


1) delicious tea

2) our new garden table finally arrived. I'm so happy to finally have a decent table to use in our veranda or garden ^^

3) going out for dinner with my sister for her birthday. I've been wanting to try out a fancy restaurant near us for a while, and this was the perfect reason to go there *grins*
The restaurant cancelled this afternoon, because the owner had to go to the hospital with his daughter. So that means some me time this evening (actually also much needed) and dinner is moved to Thursday ^^
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hannah ([personal profile] hannah) wrote2025-11-03 08:54 pm

Take a test.

I'm only a little disappointed I'm not working the polls tomorrow. Only a little, because as much as I'd wanted to get out and participate, I know calling off was the right thing to do. I'm coming off a nasty cold - four negative rapid tests since last Wednesday night, including one this afternoon, seem reasonably trustworthy - and while I'm mostly recovered, working the polls for the full duration tomorrow wouldn't do me any good. It's hard enough when I'm completely healthy.

What I'm finding amusing about this is one of my clients reached out and because I'm not working the polls and the physical demands will be significantly less with far fewer hours, I'll be working with her tomorrow afternoon, which means I've basically gone from the public to the private sector.
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dark_kana ([personal profile] dark_kana) wrote in [community profile] 3_good_things_a_day2025-11-03 10:28 am

Monday 03/11/2025


1) a day at the office

2) reading during lunchbreak

3) going to watch a movie this evening with hubby :-)

Dresden Codak ([syndicated profile] dresden_codak_feed) wrote2025-11-02 11:10 am

No new comic today – regular updates return next week!

Posted by Senna Diaz

Howdy folks, I’m actually about to return home from my two-week Kickstarter-stretch-goal-mandated vacation! I had planned to put together a filler comic for this week, but unfortunately I ran into some technical problems that dashed any hopes of keeping up the weekly update streak. Rest assured, there will be a new comic of some form next Monday, thanks for your patience.

-Sen

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lhune ([personal profile] lhune) wrote in [community profile] 3_good_things_a_day2025-11-02 10:44 am

Sunday 02/11/2025

1) Reading on my sunny balcony while I still can

2) Clean bedlinen for tonight (it’s forever returning but ai do love the smell of fresh linen)

3) Did I mention the sunshine ^__^ Also, Tea
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bikergeek ([personal profile] bikergeek) wrote in [community profile] agonyaunt2025-11-02 12:31 am

My husband knows I’m traumatized by grippy socks, yet he keeps giving them to me

https://www.mercurynews.com/2025/11/01/asking-eric-thomas-traumatic-socks/

Dear Eric: My husband of more than 20 years gives me slipper socks with grippy soles. I hate them!

We live in a hot climate, so I have little use for them. They filled up my sock drawer and retraumatized me every time I touched them. I threw them away and they came back.

He gave me five more pairs at Christmas. They can’t be worn with shoes or out in public. They are synthetic so I cannot even use them to polish the furniture. I kept them for animal first aid.

I cannot be cool about these socks. They remind me of the horrible time I had in the hospital having emergency surgery. My husband couldn’t even manage to hug me or talk with me before my surgery.

I’m trying very hard to be graceful and grateful for any gift from my husband, but I want to throw these at him. He knows darn well I dislike them but has given them repeatedly to me. I have to use my good fabric shears to slice them up or he will “rescue them” from the garbage.

Is there a graceful way to handle the next installment of fluffy grippy socks? I tried to no avail telling him I get my grippy socks the old-fashioned way – at the hospital, in person!

– Sock Drawer Full

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hannah ([personal profile] hannah) wrote2025-11-01 09:15 pm

November the First.

I called the library beforehand to ask when they took donations for the book sale, and how much I could provide. I followed directions on time, but not so much on volume - they got what they got, which was mostly what I'd bought from them over the past couple years. Nearly all of it was DVDs, CDs, and Blurays where I kept telling myself I didn't want the object, I wanted what was stored on the object. It was lovely to get this movie or that album, and now that I had what I wanted on my computer, I didn't need the object anymore. It was nice to grab all four seasons of Black Sails and the whole series of Fringe, and I don't have the space around my apartment to keep those with what I've already got on the shelves. Especially when I haven't yet gotten around to watching the shows. Soon, in due time. But keeping the objects of the box sets around won't help.

All that, and it's nice to get a few square feet of floor space back. Enough to notice, which is enough to make me want to keep going. Do another book cull, drag those clothes to the donation bin. Say "goodbye and thank you" to the stuff that isn't giving me anything but nostalgia. And maybe see about which extant box sets on my shelves are objects I want for the particular value they have as objects. Is it "the value of the object qualia object"? I'm sure there's a term for it.
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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote in [community profile] agonyaunt2025-11-01 07:39 pm

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Dear Carolyn: When the most important person in my life died in an accident, a friend never even bothered to say how sorry she was, despite many opportunities — the wake, dinner together, etc. She grilled me on the horrid circumstances of the accident instead.

I refused to meet with her again because it upset me so much, but our families are still close, especially our sons.
I put her complete lack of empathy down to her stupidity and lack of education but really thought the base reason was that she’d never experienced such grief.

Now, five years later, her husband has died at a young age. He was a friend also, and we are attending the funeral.
Is it okay for me to treat her the same way she treated me? It would give me a sense of closure not to have to say to her, “I’m sorry for your loss.” After all, those words never left her mouth when I was living my nightmare. I wouldn’t stoop to asking about the death’s details, but I’d give my sincerest condolences only to her sons.


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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote in [community profile] agonyaunt2025-11-01 04:28 pm

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DEAR ABBY: My 11-year-old daughter, "Emma," has a group of six to eight friends she has played with at school, in scouts, parties, etc., for more than three years. Eight months ago, one of the girls, "Charlotte," had a sleepover, and Emma was not invited. She was very hurt and cried. I told her she would not always be invited to everything and maybe there was a limit Charlotte could invite.

Since then, whenever there is an event that Emma knows Charlotte will be at, my daughter refuses to go. For eight months she has purposely skipped some parties and scouting events. Otherwise, they all seem to still hang together at school. How can I help my daughter understand she is only hurting herself? -- EMPATHETIC MOM IN OHIO


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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote in [community profile] agonyaunt2025-11-01 04:22 pm

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Dear Annie: My daughter-in-law never forgives or forgets anything that's happened in her 13 years of marriage to my son. As a result, she punishes us by keeping us from our grandchildren, who love us dearly. Sometimes my son FaceTimes with us when she's not home, but otherwise, we can go three to four months without seeing our grandkids if we say even one word or make one expression she doesn't like.

To avoid fights, my son just goes along with it. This year, I wasn't even allowed to see my granddaughter for her birthday. I cry all the time because at my age, I may not have many years left with them.

It feels like our daughter-in-law doesn't have a heart. We may not be perfect, but why can't she understand that the kids are the ones who suffer most by the distance she creates? -- Locked-Out Grandma


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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote in [community profile] agonyaunt2025-11-01 04:16 pm

Harriette could be worse this time

DEAR HARRIETTE: I think my son may be harboring some resentment toward me. We have a strained relationship, and even though I want us to be closer, the distance seems intentional on his end. If I try asking questions, he gets defensive or gives short responses only, and sometimes it turns into an argument or disagreement. On more than one occasion, he's referenced times in the past where I might've overstepped a boundary, spoken up on his behalf or been overbearing. How can I move forward with my son if he won't forgive me for the past? I wish he could realize that those things I did were just a mama bear looking out for her cub. -- Boy Mom

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lhune ([personal profile] lhune) wrote in [community profile] 3_good_things_a_day2025-11-01 10:16 am

Saturday 01/11/2025

1) An excellent cup of coffee to properly wake up

2) Dinner with my family

3) Good telly this evening
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hannah ([personal profile] hannah) wrote2025-10-31 09:00 pm

Crave some wildness.

Tonight was my and my dad's last Friday night rooftop cider of the season. There's still going to be Friday night ciders - splitting a bottle, catching up, having a good time chatting - and with the nights coming earlier, it's going to happen in the apartment instead of the roof. I don't mind too much, not with how dark it was when we got there or how much darker it was when we went back down. It was honestly quite nice to look around and realize this was the last one. Nothing too special about it, no world-class cider or magnificent thoughts, just a good bottle and a nice time.

Let me amend that: nothing too special about what we did, something quite special about the night in a low-key mundane way, paying attention to the ordinary moments. It was a lovely sunset, fast-moving gray-on-slate tufts and spots of clouds, and by the time we went in, it was dark enough the moon was the brightest thing in the sky. So we stopped to look at it for a while. Just past half-full, the clouds were moving eastward. Almost there, almost there, the wind and the angle taking them just below the moon, enough to light up but not what we were hoping for, waiting more, waiting, a large piece comes by and not quite and maybe this next one - and in front of the moon it went, bright as a star, and we kept oohing and ahhing until it'd passed and the moon was shining by itself again.

As ways to end a season, it's a pretty good one.
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lhune ([personal profile] lhune) wrote in [community profile] 3_good_things_a_day2025-10-31 10:14 am

Friday 31/10/2025

1) I met two members of my family by chance yesterday on the sunny graveyard, we had a lovely chat

2) New flowers for in my living room

3) Visit to the library and maybe a cat café if it’s not too crowded it was too crowded but I got a yum cinnamon bun instead